Monday, September 5, 2011

The Art of Letting Go

It’s over…
You’re gone…
Why do we have to part…?
When the love is still there?
Why do we have to suffer?
Why do we have to cry, when someone bids goodbye?
Why does beginnings have to end?
Why do we have to meet someone only to lose them in the end?

There are questions left unanswered, words left unsaid, letters left unread, song left unsung, love left unexpressed, promises left unfulfilled…

In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is hard as breaking crystal because you’ll never know when you’ll be able to pick up the pieces again. More often than not, they who leave feel not the pain of parting, it is who stay behind who suffers, because they are left w/memories of a love that was meant to be, a love that was….

At the beginning and at the end of a relationship, we feel embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem, but that’s the way love goes. That’s the drama, the bitter sweet and risk of falling in love. After all, nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end w/out us knowing why now we must forget, not because we want to but we have to…

In letting go, sorrows come not as a single spy, but a battalion. It seems that everywhere I go everything I do. Every song I hear, every turn of my heart, every blink of my eyes and every breath I take always reminds of you. It’s like a stab of knife, a torture in the knight…..

I don’t know if it’s worth calling an art, but letting go entails a special skill, sparkle w/a considerable space and time. Time heals all wounds but it takes a little push. Not all wishes come true, not all stories end w/, “and hey lived happily ever after.”

Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer, if it would mean happiness for others. We have to temporarily to let go of the pain. Every beginning has its end, as every dawn has its dusk. It is something we can’t control, something we have to live up…Beautiful things are built in the foundation of pain. It is through pain that we become stronger. It is through the many times that we get hurt that we learn to make lasting and fruitful relationship. Time can heal even the deepest wound love brings. We know it hurts, but pain will always be a part of loving. Love isn’t eternal, its also fades away and dies. We should not die w/ it, life has to go on even we have to start alone. The mistakes we make should make us wiser and the pain love bring should make us stronger…

There is no certainty in this world. We should cherish what we have now, for tomorrow they may be no more. It’s true that losing someone dear to us can be devastatingly painful. Cry when we have to. Pray that our tears will wash away the pain we feel inside. Let every sleepless nights open our minds to reality and each day teach our hearts to love again…

Never let go w/o trigging and never give up w/o putting up a fight. Follow your heart and go where your destiny leads you. A lot of us take for granted those we hold dear in our heart, because we assume they will just be here hard to accept if we know, deep in our hearts, that we never took the chance to show them how they meant to us…

It’s over…
You’re gone…
But life has to go on…
Goodbye doesn’t always mean forever.
There will always be a place and time.
Where question will be answered, word will be.
Spoken…
Someday…
Somehow…
Somewhere…
Some when…

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